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MONIQUE RUTHERFORD Somatic Attachment Focused Expressive Therapy® & Training
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The SAFE-T® MENTORSHIP Program

Mentoring for Qualified Therapists Ready to Imagine, Create, Embody and Liberate Love
 

Expand your Passion to Help Others Heal and Become a Leader in your Field
 
Do you want a counselling practice based on explicit therapeutic principles that invite clients into a world beyond ‘talking’,
a practice that offers a ‘bottom-up’ creative and embodied approach?

 
Could you imagine having research-based theories and frameworks firmly supporting your practice
to enhance your client’s attachment and nervous system repair?

 
How about having a range of expressive modalities to choose from to
meet your client where they are at and really know which intervention to use when?

 
I am passionate about supporting both beginning and experienced therapists who are ready to
take their therapy practice to the next level, to integrate new frameworks, principles and skills. 
Therapists who want to work holistically, safely, experientially and joyfully with their clients. 
Therapists who are not afraid to take a deep dive into their own attachment and nervous system along the way.
 
No therapist is an island. While therapeutic skill is the product of years of practice and self-determination,
most therapists, no matter where they are in their career, need a mentor:  someone who, directly or indirectly,
​takes them under their wing and inspires them to be a better therapist. 
 
This highly specialised, 8-month online MENTORSHIP PROGRAM
for Counselling Therapists, will do just that. 
It will take you into the extraordinary world of
Somatic Attachment Focused Expressive Therapies® (SAFE-T).
 
I will have your back.
I will be here when you need support.

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You will Learn How To:
  • Identify attachment styles
  • Use appropriate language that will help you attune quickly to your client’s nervous system
  • Help clients identify secure base and safe haven gaps
  • Support clients to find and grow internal and external resources
  • Use ritual and rhythm in the counselling session to create safety
  • Learn 'corrective experiences' necessary for secure functioning
  • Introduce processes to support emotion regulation
  • Use a range of expressive modalities to support your client’s learning style
  • Learn about the Expressive Therapies Continuum
  • Encourage imagination and creativity to help restore hope and build resilience
  • Focus on recovery rather than pathology
  • Increase your client’s self-awareness and emotional intelligence
  • Increase your capacity for presence, holding space and ‘being with’ each client
  • Build an understanding of how to use somatic awareness to access autonomic states
  • Identify autonomic states and how to support clients’ flexibility to shift states
  • Practice and master the art of invitational language
  • Be with clients so that you don’t lead or follow, but rather walk side-by-side, both curious and confident
 
We need therapeutic leaders who are not just grounded in theory, but who have themselves explored their own internal terrain, who have experienced their own profound attachment and nervous system repair, so that they can intuitively take clients to the deeper places they themselves have been.
 
Maybe you’ve experienced some of the following clinical issues:
  • Parents who display anger at their child for things they were never allowed to be angry about when they were young
  • Adolescents who are self-harming with a history of family loss and disruption
  • Adults who display anxious preoccupation with partner’s whom they are trying to parent/fix, when they themselves were not well parented
  • Children with peer difficulties, emotion dysregulation, high sensitivity
  • Client's with neurodiversity differences
  • Client's exploring their sexuality or gender diversity
  • Overwhelming distress when in relationship, even though they desperately want it to work
  • Client’s impacted by neglectful parenting which shows up as a lack of self-care
  • Client’s impacted by intrusive parenting which shows up as self-doubt
  • Intergenerational trauma where a past injustice has been passed on and is felt deeply
  • Adults who suffer the injustices of exclusion and ridicule in current relating dynamics and have not yet learned to leave, to stand on their own two feet for a time, to find their true and like-minded tribe
  • Separation anxiety and collapse after relationship break-up
  • Client's who were adopted or grew up in or are growing up in foster care
  • Inability to leave a toxic relationship
  • Children whose parents are separating, or who have experienced family disruption
  • Parents who are overly anxious about their child’s well-being
  • Clients who talk so fast, it’s hard to keep up, slow them down and difficult to engage their body
  • Dismissive clients that express dysregulation and discontent but are reluctant to engage their vulnerability, their body or their emotional world
  • Partner’s stuck in blame and victimhood desperately wanting the other to change
  • Adult’s crippled by shame and an internalised critic
  • Clients with few boundaries, who’ve experienced boundary violation
  • Clients who have lost their voice, their autonomy, their sense of self
  • Clients who regularly blame or shame you, their therapist
 
Let’s face it, working as a therapist is challenging and people’s lives are complex.  Many of the strategies we use are effective and yet sometimes we feel lost, disoriented and overwhelmed.  This is when being a part of a MENTORING Program means you will not be left alone grappling with the common complexities of your own case load.  It means you will always have access to support when you need it; a place to pose clinical questions, and a place to find inspiration.  Imagine having a like-minded, experienced mentor who has your back.  Imagine having a team of like-minded colleagues cheering you on.
  • Many other approaches to therapy don’t incorporate or recognise the importance of our nervous system and our autonomic states, and how we can learn to move flexibly between them, employing our social engagement system, instead of getting stuck in autonomic responses of fight, flight or freeze.
  • Other approaches don’t acknowledge our wired in need to connect with others for survival and miss the crucial blueprint laid down in early attachment patterning.  They miss how we can support our clients to ‘earn security’ and how we can implement ‘corrective experiences’ to help re-pattern the attachment system.
  • Other approaches ignore the great importance of imagination, creativity and play in the development of resilience and recovery.​
In Somatic Attachment Focused Expressive Therapy® we combine all
​three approaches to support healing in a creative, embodied and relational way.
Yes, please
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Mentorship Snap-Shot

  • Over 8 months you will join and attend the six live, in-person SAFE-T® training 3-day workshops being held in the beautiful Byron Bay region in Northern NSW in 2021. (worth $5,000)
  • You will have access to a bi-monthly 2-hour group webinar over Zoom, followed by a 1-hour practice session, where we will revisit core concepts and exercises covered in the training and apply to your clinical practice, your life and within the group (worth $4,800).
  •  Once a month you will have access to a 90-minute Individual Supervision session with me (worth $1,200).
  •  Six 1-hour Guest Teacher Interviews  (worth $3000).
  • All resources, including articles, videos of client work and experiential exercise outlines will be shared online, so that you have access to them to use with your clients (worth $2000).
  • Unlimited email support.  So that you have a hand to hold and a wise ally walking with you as you grow new skills with your clients (invaluable).
 
That’s over $16,000 worth of valuable professional training, supervision, expert advice, resource provision and collegial support! 
For EIGHT full months!!

Curriculum

Here’s what we’ll cover during the 8-month Mentorship:

I’ll deliver my entire body of work.
It’s Somatic.  It’s Relational.  It’s Creativity on steroids. 
Science-meets-Soul.  It’s my blueprint for the deepest levels of change.
It cultivates resiliency, state flexibility, creativity, recovery, healing and the self-agency
to steward the counselling practice you desire for yourself and your clients. 
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First Month:
  • Introduction to the field of Expressive Therapy
  • Components of trauma-informed care
  • Components of trauma-informed Expressive Therapy
  • Trauma-informed Expressive Therapy interventions
  • Parts of the brain and their relationships to traumatic events and trauma-informed practice
  • Neurosequential development and the Expressive Therapies Continuum
  • Why self-regulation, safety and resilience-enhancement are important to trauma-informed expressive therapy
  • Practice expressive grounding approaches
  • Why movement, sound, storytelling, and silence are key elements of Expressive Therapy healing practice
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Second Month:
  • ​​Introduction to the field of Attachment
  • Attachment as a Survival Imperative
  • The Strange Situation Test
  • The Adult Attachment Inventory
  • The Four Attachment Styles
  • Earned Security and Secure Functioning
  • Attachment Resourcing & Ally's
  • Self-regulation interventions using expressive modalities that increase mindfulness and interoception
  • Expressive Therapy as a form of body-based psychotherapy
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Third Month:
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Sixth Month:
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Eight Month:
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Mentorship Details

  • $6,490 AUD paid in full (earlybird price – never to be repeated).
  • Or $869 AUD per month x 8 (or a suitable payment plan can be discussed).
  • MONTHLY 1:1 Supervision session with Monique (8 x 1.5 hours).
  • Intimate in-depth 8-month mastery immersion with Monique.
  • Access Monique’s entire body of work content for 8 months.
  • Expert content:  reading, inquiry, video lessons & practice.
  • Bimonthly Zoom calls (x16).
  • Videos of Monique’s interviews with guest teachers.
  • Membership site.
  • 6 x LIVE Face-to-Face 3-day workshops with Monique and your tribe in the beautiful Byron Bay region.
  • Optional private FB group membership and support.
  • Hang out with me for a whole 8 months. I’ll teach you everything I know.
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Scholarship Details

Scholarships aim to broaden opportunities and make learning and growing a successful experience.  Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, intersex and questioning (LGBTIQ) practitioners, along with Australian Indigenous practitioners, often face unique challenges in their personal lives, workplaces and academia; funding shouldn’t be one of them. 
 
It’s more important than ever for the LGBTIQ community and for our Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander community to include their presence in the world of welfare, psychology and psychotherapy.  By creating access to scholarships, LGBTIQ along with Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander individuals can better shape cultural progress. 

For this reason I have made two scholarship's available each year:  The SAFE-T® Queer Leaders Scholarship and the SAFE-T® Sovereign Leaders Scholarship.  Read below for details and to apply.

Please Note:  As I am passionate about increasing the numbers and elevating the voices of Queer & First Nations Therapists, I will be offering partial scholarships for those that apply but miss out on the full scholarship.

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The SAFE-T® Queer Leaders Scholarship recognises the efforts of a Counselling Professional who contributes to an inclusive culture and assists in promoting awareness and understanding of issues that may affect people of diverse genders and sexualities.
 
APPLICATIONS
22 – 29 January 2021
 
TOTAL SCHOLARSHIP VALUE
$6 490 for one year only
 
NUMBER OFFERED
One scholarship per year
 
AM I ELIGIBLE?
You must be one of the following:
  • An Australian citizen
  • A New Zealand citizen
  • Australian permanent resident
  • Australian humanitarian visa holder
 
You must meet the following criteria:
  • Enrolled in the SAFE-T® training & Mentorship Program
  • Be available and able to attend ALL training & mentoring events – online and face-to-face
  • Identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, intersex or queer* community (LGBTIQ).
*In this context queer is used as an umbrella term to describe people of diverse genders and sexualities.
 
SELECTION CRITERIA
  • Based on prior therapy training, experience and interview.
  • Must be a member of ACA, PACFA, APA or ASW.
  • Must display a demonstrated commitment to promoting awareness and understanding of issues that may affect people of diverse genders and sexualities.
The SAFE-T® Sovereign Leaders Scholarship recognises the efforts of a Counselling Professional who contributes to an inclusive culture and assists in promoting awareness and understanding of issues that may affect Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people.
 
APPLICATIONS
22 – 29 January 2021
 
TOTAL SCHOLARSHIP VALUE
$6 490 for one year only
 
NUMBER OFFERED
One scholarship per year
 
AM I ELIGIBLE?
You must be one of the following:
  • An Australian citizen
  • A New Zealand citizen
  • Australian permanent resident
  • Australian humanitarian visa holder
 
You must meet the following criteria:
  • Enrolled in the SAFE-T® training & Mentorship Program
  • Be available and able to attend ALL training & mentoring events – online and face-to-face
  • Identify as Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander
 
SELECTION CRITERIA
  • Based on prior therapy training, experience and interview.
  • Must be a member of ACA, PACFA, APA or ASW.
  • Must display a demonstrated commitment to promoting awareness and understanding of issues that may affect Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people.

Apply Here

Acknowledgement of Country

Diversity is Welcome

I would like to acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as Australia’s First People, Traditional Custodians and Sovereign owners of this country.  I value their cultures, identities and continuing connection to country, waters, kin and community.  I pay my respects to Elders past and present and am committed to making a positive contribution to the wellbeing of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people by providing services that are welcoming, safe, culturally appropriate and inclusive.  I acknowledge that Sovereignty was never ceded.
I am  committed to embracing diversity and eliminating all forms of discrimination in the provision of counselling & training services. I welcome all people irrespective of ethnicity, lifestyle choice, faith, sexual orientation and gender identity.
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Make the Change You Wish To See ​in the World...

When you invest in your future through my services, you're also creating meaningful change in the world, because every service you engage with supports YARNS HEAL, Suicide Prevention  Campaign.​
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Mullumbimby  NSW  2482

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